This is beautiful. They say that one way for things to be clearer today, is to think about the end and make decisions accordingly. St. Ignatius has this Contemplation where he asks one going on retreat to imagine himself/herself in his/her deathbed, and to use that vantage point in making your particular decision: in your deathbed, would this decision matter? In your deathbed would you make this decision or would you not? In your deathbed, how will you look back at this particular decision?
Use this video as your prayer point today. Think about your loved one, think about the future, think about the end. And commit, or re-commit to the promises you said, to the vows you made.